If the thought of going along to a full lifestyle resort has you a little scared, there are several adults only resorts that may appeal to you. Perhaps you are not swingers, but still want to be able to enjoy the eroticism that a lifestyle resort has to offer as well as the guaranteed child free zone for your vacation experience.
There are a few major differences between the adults only resorts on offer. You will find that a true lifestyle resort will not allow singles. You must book and attend as a male and female couple, and you will be turned away or asked to leave if it becomes apparent that you are not a legitimate couple. Some resorts or cruises will allow you to bring a single female with you. Other adults only resorts allow singles as they are seen as traditionally non-lifestyle. That’s not to say you will not find swingers here and in fact many swingers still vacation there, however the public displays of affection are more tightly controlled and the atmosphere can be more of a party.
Most of the adults only resorts are all inclusive, which is handy when the choice of attire leaves little to the imagination and you have nowhere to carry your wallet.
Temptations resort is a great choice; classy, sexy and erotic, but without the full ‘in your face’ open sex. As part of the Original Resorts group, they have carefully and tastefully captured two important niches in couples only all inclusive lifestyle resort vacations. Temptations are currently located at Riviera Maya near Cancun and Los Cabos near Cabo San Lucas. Temptations is a topless optional resort, but it is not mandatory to be topless.
Hedonism, or Hedo as it is more commonly known, is another popular erotic destination. Located in Jamaica, it is seen as more of a party destination with a very relaxed atmosphere. The resort is divided between a nude and a fully clothed area.
Caliente is another one of the best adults only resorts. They have locations in Florida and the Dominican Republic. It is mainly touted as a nudist resort, however it does occasionally hold lifestyle events and lifestyle nights.
Desire Resort and Spa in Mexico is seen as a favourite for a lot of swingers. There are so many repeat guests that every time you go, you are guaranteed to know someone. Quite often, before people will plan a holiday at Desire, they will confer with friends they have met there previously as to when they are booking and usually book around the same time. Desire is clothing optional, which means you can wear as much or as little as you want, but most prefer the latter.
Even if you are not swingers, if you want to take a vacation that is different to most, you must visit one of these adults only resorts at least once in your lifetime.